• ‘Christian’ Church Halts Woman’s Funeral Midway Because She Was Gay

    January 15, 2015

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    Religion is not about hate. It is not about intolerance. It should never be used to harm innocents. Believers need to be very suspect of those who quote holy words to justify such things.

    Je Suis Vanessa Collier

    Hundreds of Vanessa Collier’s friends and family gathered Saturday at New Hope Ministries, sitting before an open casket that held the woman they loved, when suddenly the minister overseeing her funeral stopped the service.

    An hour-long viewing of Collier’s body had just finished and the memorial service was 15 minutes underway when Chavez stopped it.

    The memorial could not continue, Pastor Ray Chavez said, as long as pictures of Collier with the love of her life, the spouse she shared two children with, were to be displayed. Chavez said there could be no images of Collier with her wife, Christina. There could be no indication that Collier was gay. Because, Christianity.

    Hate Crime
    Chavez, who apparently read one line out of the Bible’s Old Testament and completely missed the entire point of love, caring, tolerance and peace in the entire freaking New Testament, committed a hate crime. He harmed every grieving friend and relative of the deceased, and harmed her children. “It was humiliating,” said Victoria Quintana, Collier’s longtime friend. “It was devastating.”

    Those who loved Collier picked up programs, flowers and eventually the dead woman’s casket itself, hand-carrying them to a mortuary across the street.

    A representative for New Hope Ministries declined to comment before hanging up on a Denver Post reporter on Tuesday. A biography on the church website says Chavez founded the ministry in 1981 with his wife, Lola. It says the church “is a place where those bound by drugs, alcohol, gangs and violence can find an ‘Ounce of Hope.'”

    About four dozen supporters of Ms. Collier and her family gathered outside of the church in protest, chanting “Give us an apology!” and “Shame on Pastor Ray!” Security guards were stationed in front of the building to ensure none of the marchers made their way onto the property.

    Collier’s friends say they still haven’t been reimbursed by New Hope Ministry for the cost of the funeral.

    Unclear from news reports is how the church was unaware that the deceased was a gay woman, and why that only became apparent to the hateful pastor well into the memorial service.

    And hey, if you have thoughts you’d like to share with the pastor, he and his church can be contacted online.

    Here is Pastor Chavez and what I assume is his hetero spouse:





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  • Recent Comments

    • Rich Bauer said...

      1

      These “christians” are fucking hope-less.

      Shit like this makes one wonder if the whole world is going mad:

      http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2015/jan/15/maryland-couple-investigated-for-letting-children-/

      01/15/15 4:22 PM | Comment Link

    • Helen Marshall said...

      2

      Have to respectfully disagree, much of religion is about hate or at least disdain for those who do not share the faith. Even the peaceful Buddhists are busy in some places exiling those who are not Buddhists, forcing them to leave the country (even Bhutan, the land of Gross National Happiness). We can try to take the best from religion but cannot assume that only the “loving” parts are the “real” religion.

      01/15/15 5:19 PM | Comment Link

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